How to Use Livelinks

  • Dial your local Livelinks phone number.

  • Record your greeting.

  • Listen to women’s greetings and respond to messages you like.

  • Start chatting.

What does Livelinks cost?

It’s absolutely FREE to try for new members. No payment information required.

Livelinks Packages give affordable access to one of the best places to meet women – over the phone! Chat with people who are looking to meet up for friendship, dating or more.

Find a Package

Livelinks offers a number of convenient payment options.
Call our toll free customer number at 1-800-984-6889 for any other inquiries on packages or pricing.

We did not find any packages matching your area code but you can also search for packages by city and state/province on our Buy a Package page.

Free Trial for New Members

If you haven’t tried phone chat before, discover Livelinks as the perfect place to meet sexy singles and experience the power of voice chat and instant connections. Livelinks offers all first-time male callers a Free Trial, absolutely free with no strings attached. Your Free Trial will give you access to amazing ladies and exciting chat features to connect with hot, local singles.

Getting your Free Trial is as simple as picking up the phone and calling your local Livelinks number. Follow the prompts on Livelinks to get your free minutes and start chatting. Just remember to call from the same phone number to access your Livelinks Free Trial minutes.

After enjoying the Free Trial, continue the fun by taking advantage of the Double-the-Minutes package promotion for first-time Paid Members.

Paid Members

Enjoy these benefits exclusive to Paid Members only:

Priority Customer Service

Affordable packages that give you the most talk time with great local women.

Access From Any Phone

Your Paid Membership can be used from any phone number, so you can connect to Livelinks from anywhere.

Priority Messages

A Members-only option to put your message ahead of Free Trial users.

Loyalty Program

Enjoy rewards and earn bonus chat time for being a loyal Paid Member.

Saved Greeting

Connect faster by using your previously recorded greeting so you can jump right in and start chatting.

Speed Renewal

As a Paid Member, you’re all set to easily and quickly add minutes. This comes in handy when you are in the middle of a fun chat session and we hold that connection for you as you add minutes.

Priority Access

Livelinks is always busy with plenty of people on the chatline, and it can get very popular on certain days or times of day. As a Paid Member, you have priority access to the system no matter how busy it gets. Your Paid Membership can be used from any phone number, so you can connect to Livelinks from anywhere.


No distraction from sponsor ads as you browse through greetings. Paid Members can use the web Self-Service option to check their current balance and add more time.

Web Self-Service

Use the web self-service option to check your balance, add more time and manage your account.

Chat Tips for Men

Chat Tip #5

Common Mistake

The #1 chatline mistake is thinking that your greeting message is good, and not knowing you’re mumbling or inaudible. Listen to your greeting after recording to check the quality.

Chat Tip #10

Use a Friendly tone

Women respond to charm, warmth and confidence. Smile when you speak to convey warmth.

Chat Tip #7

Create Memorable Messages

Say the other person's name when sending them a direct private message. Comment on something specific she referred to in her greeting that stood out to you, and tell her why you found it interesting. Give her something to respond to by asking a direct question.

Chat Tip #3

Best Chat Openers

Start the chat successfully -- use her name and tell her how excited you are to be chatting with her. Show curiosity in any interests mentioned in her greeting. Be bold, curious and playful without being crude or pushy.

Chat Tip #11

Spark Attraction

Connecting on similarities builds attraction, and differences can fuel intrigue. Both areas are great ways to build a stronger interest and attraction.

Chat Tip #9


If you like someone, don’t just try to impress her by droning on about yourself. Show interest by asking questions and listening (without interruption) to her response.

Chat Tip #1


Once you get to know her a bit, find the things that make her laugh. Nothing connects two people in conversation like laughter.

Chat Tip #8

Be Your Sexual Self

Be free to express that you’re passionate and want excitement! Women want to be desired, and you could have a hot conversation together, but natural and mutual is key.

Chat Tip #6

Take It Slow

Don't leap ahead with crude or aggressive language, or being pushy. Instead, match her pace, turning each other on with words, tone of voice and even your breath. Remember, the ladies on Livelinks are real singles and are not paid to talk to you.

Greetings How-To

Your greeting is what draws people in. Women respond well to flirtatious warmth and confidence. Here are some tips to make yours memorable and popular with women!

  • Listen.

    Hearing background noise or mumbling can be a turn-off. Create a great impression by taking the time to record your greeting in a quiet place and listening to it to make sure it’s clear and audible.

  • Share.

    Give your name, age and key things that make you special. Share your personality rather than personal details like email or workplace (save this for private chats if you want).

  • Be Specific.

    Do you want an entertaining chat, a sexual escapade or the partner you want to spend the rest of your life with? Let her know so you will attract the right person for you.

  • Smile!

    Women respond to charm, warmth and confidence. Smiles can be heard in our voices, so smile when you record your greeting to show your friendliness.

Want to hear what the ladies are saying?

Livelinks FAQs for Men

At Livelinks, we strive to give you a fun and pleasant way to connect with other like-minded singles. Our Customer Service agents are always available to answer your questions about our Livelinks service. You can also get answers quickly in our Frequently Asked Questions below, which cover everything you need to know to start meeting women on Livelinks instantly.

What is Livelinks?

Livelinks was established since 1990 as a phone chat line service to help singles meet other local singles in a fun, safe and comfortable setting. Being the biggest phone chat line company in North America, we know what you are looking for and give it our best to make real instant connections with many like-minded singles to experience fun, friendship and relationships.

What kinds of people call Livelinks?

People like you! We do not hire people to use our system, everyone you hear is a real person looking for the same things you are.

How old do I have to be to call Livelinks?

All callers must be at least 18 years old to use Livelinks.

Is my information secure with Livelinks?

Unlike online dating, we don’t require you to provide us with personal information, profile questionnaires or intimate details. Rest assured that your experience on Livelinks is as private and secure as you make it.

How can I start meeting new people through Livelinks?

  1. Call the Livelinks phone # local to you.
  2. Record your greeting in the Live Connector.
  3. Browse through the greetings while other people listen to yours.
  4. When you hear someone interesting, send them a message to strike up a conversation.
  5. Send or accept a connection request for a private live chat.

Are the people on Livelinks paid to talk to me?

No, everyone you hear on our system is a real person, just like you.

Is Livelinks private and confidential?

Absolutely! Other Livelinks callers have no way of getting any information about you unless you give it to them. They won’t know your phone number, address or real name.

Before I buy a membership, can I try your service for free?

Yes! If it’s your first time calling Livelinks, you can try for free. To get your Free Trial, follow these simple steps:

  1. Call your local Livelinks number.
  2. Select your language preference.
  3. When asked for a Membership number, press the # key.

The system will automatically issue you a Free Trial if you are eligible. After that, you just need to call from the same phone number to enjoy your time on Livelinks.

Can I use my free trial from any phone?

No, you can ONLY use your Free Trial account from the phone number it is issued for. New Free Trial accounts will not be issued to a phone number that has previously been issued one.

Can a Customer Service agent give me a Free Trial?

No. The Customer Service agents cannot issue Free Trials. You need to call your local Livelinks number to set up a Free Trial through the phone operating system.

Why isn’t my Free Trial working?

Your Free Trial may not work if:

  • Someone has already used a Free Trial from your phone number before.
  • The system cannot read your phone number on call display. You can try to dial *82 to display your phone number to our system.
  • There is no time left in the membership.
  • It has been more than 7 days since your Free Trial was issued.
  • You are calling Livelinks through long distance. Make sure you are calling a local Livelinks phone number.

I'm calling your 1-800 number, and I can't use my Free Trial. Why not?

You should look up your local access number, and try calling in that way. In the unlikely event that we do not provide local service to your area, call our 24-hour toll-free Customer Service at 1-800-984-6889 and they'll help you get connected.

What do I do if I can't get a Free Trial membership?

We have an awesome introductory package for new callers for just $9.99 - and we DOUBLE the minutes on your first purchase.

How do I get started?

Livelinks is always sexy, fun, and exciting. With different callers all the time, it’s a great new experience every time you call. Here’s what to expect:

  1. Start by calling your local Livelinks phone number.
  2. Record a greeting that will introduce you to the other callers. You can re-record your greeting as many times as you like. Once you save it, it plays to the other callers, letting them know you’re on the line.
  3. Next, listen to greetings from other callers. Hear someone you like? Send them a message! If someone’s into you, they’ll message you too. You can respond to anyone (or everyone!) you want—it’s always up to you.
  4. Find someone really special? If messages are flying like sparks, invite them to join you for a live chat session! Your private chats are just that—private! What you do is between you two. Don’t worry, people can still send you messages while you’re in a private chat. You’ll hear them once you’ve finished a live chat.

What is not acceptable in a greeting?

We want everyone to have a positive and enjoyable experience using Livelinks Chatline. We will not tolerate:

  • Any discrimination based on age, gender or race
  • Any references to illegal activity
  • Threats of violence or harm

What if I receive a message that I find really interesting?

When you receive a message from someone who interests you—and we know you will—you can instantly exchange private messages with them. It’s like sending a voicemail that they’ll hear right away. When you’re ready, send a connection request to chat live in a private conversation.

What is Hot List?

If you hear a greeting of another member that you like, you can add the member to your Hot List. When they come online, you’ll be notified with that member’s greeting. You can send them a private message or request for Live Connection if you like. If you’re offline, you’ll receive a text to let you know if someone from your Hot List is online. Guys, you are all set with this feature.

What should I say in my greeting?

Your greeting introduces you to other callers, so don’t be shy! This is your chance to share what’s special about you. Relax and take your time, because the best greetings get the most responses! Here are some tips for recording a greeting to get you noticed:

  • Keep your tone positive! Ladies are attracted to confidence and warmth, so speak clearly and remember to smile.
  • Share your best features, interests, and passions. Think about what will make you stand out to the ladies, and let them know!
  • Most importantly, tell them what you're looking for! Whether it's friendship, a relationship, or something more sensual, asking for what you want is the best way to get it.
  • Listen to your greeting when you’re done recording to make sure it’s the way you want it. If you want to express something different, you can record a new one any time you want.

What do I do if I receive a message from a caller that I'm not interested in?

Hear from someone who’s not your type? Just skip the message! If they’re really bugging you, you can even block them by pressing "7" on their greeting. Callers that you block can’t hear your greeting, and you won’t have to hear theirs either. If you believe their behavior crosses over to inappropriate, you can also flag them for us to review by pressing “7” again after blocking them.

What is Offline Messaging?

Offline messaging means you can hear greetings from callers currently on the chatline, as well as greetings from callers who were recently on the chatline. Callers can also hear your greeting when you’re not on the line. You can send messages to offline callers, and receive messages from callers when you’re offline and be notified via text messages that you have a message waiting. You can also save messages you receive so you can listen to them again later on.

What are Ice-Breakers?

Ice breakers are pre-recorded messages you can use to initiate conversations if you are too shy to send a greeting of your own.

Can I use a Membership from any phone?

Yes, a Paid Membership may be used from any phone.

What should I do if someone asks for my Membership number online?

DO NOT GIVE IT TO THEM. No one from Livelinks will ever contact you while you are in the system. If you get a message from someone claiming to be from Livelinks, make sure you block and flag them by pressing “7,” and then “7” again after hearing their message or greeting.

How long will my Membership last?

Your Membership will continue as long as you remain active. To keep your Membership active you need to log in and use time. If your Membership is unused for a period of 3 months, it will be deactivated without refund.

What do I do if I forget or lose my Membership number or pass code?

Your Membership number gives you access to Livelinks, and your pass code is like your bank PIN number so it is important to keep these numbers private and not to share them with anyone. To protect yourself and your mailbox from fraudulent use, call our 24-hour Customer Service at 1-800-984-6889 if you lose your numbers. For your security, you might be asked to verify your personal information.

When is time deducted from my Membership?

Time is deducted from your Membership once you begin listening to greetings of other callers using the Connector. Time deduction is by a per-minute basis and the system will inform you when time is being deducted.

Will the system warn me when my Membership is about to run out of time?

The system informs you of your Membership balance each time you log on. You will be given the option to purchase more time when your balance is less than 20 minutes. The system will also warn you when your Membership balance reaches two minutes.

Which payment methods does Livelinks accept?

You can pay by Credit Card, Debit Card, Pre-Paid Credit Card, PayPal, Check-by-Phone, or Western Union.

For complete details on our easy and discreet payment methods, see Livelinks Payment Options.

Will any charges show up on my phone bill?

Charges will not appear on your home phone bill if you are using our accepted payment methods listed above.

What if I want to be informed of specials/promotions/events?

You can call the system regularly to find out about our current promotions, and make sure you’ve opted into our text promotions!

How will charges appear on my credit card statement?

When you use a credit or debit card to place your order online or on the phone, we use the discrete billing name “TELIGENCE” to keep your purchases private. The phone number that appears goes to our discrete billing department, which does not divulge information unless they are talking to you.

Credit Card Statement - TELIGENCE

Can I send a check or cash in the mail?

Checks can actually be used over the phone if you are a US customer. US and Canadian customers can pay by Western Union if you want to use cash to purchase. We don’t accept payments through the mail.

Is my credit card/personal information secure?

Yes. Since 1990, we have partnered with and been approved by the top banks in North America to provide secure credit card processing for our members. We consistently ensure utmost security when handling credit card and personal information.

How do I create a Livelinks Web Account?

To access your Livelinks account online you must first create a Web Account. To create a Web Account all you need to do is:

  1. Click on ‘Sign In’ and then on ‘Sign Up’ on
  2. Enter your valid email address and select a password for your Web Account.
  3. Answer the skill testing question so we know you’re human and click ‘Sign Up.’
  4. Once you have completed this sign-up process you will receive a confirmation email.
  5. Click on the email link to verify your account and enter your email and password to sign in.

After following the steps above, you can associate your Livelinks Membership to your web account. Signing up is free and gives you flexibility to easily add minutes, view purchase history, and manage communication from Livelinks on new features and great offers.

I try to login and your website tells me that I don’t have an account.

Try the Forgot Email or Forgot Password links on the sign in page. If neither of these work, try creating a Web Account again and make sure to click the activation link in the email you receive upon set up.

I did not receive my purchase confirmation email. What do I do?

Check your Junk email folder for the “purchase confirmation” email. You can also confirm your purchase on the View Order Historyin the Online Members section of your Web Account or call our Call Center at 1.800.984.6899 to verify that your purchase went through and minutes had been added to your account.

I haven’t received my “forgot password” email. How do I get one?

First check your Junk email folder for the “forgot password” email. If the email is not there, try adding to your email contacts and generate a new request for forgot password.

I forgot my web password and your system says that I don’t have an account. How do I recover my password?

Your Web Account is associated to the email that you provided when you signed up. Use this email to request a forgot password email. Make sure that the email you have entered when you signed up/registered is the same as the email entered when requesting a new password. Keep in mind, the email is case-sensitive.

The link in the confirmation email does not work and tells me that I do not have an account. What do I do?

The link in the email to validate the creation of your Web Account is only valid for 24 hours. You will need to request a new Web Account confirmation link if you get an error message telling you that you do not have an account. Note that this error message refers to your online Web Account, not your Livelinks Membership.